re: Roomie inviting boyfriend overnight - yes or no? by anonymous questioner

August 18, 2008 06:09 PM

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Dear internet,

My apartmentmate invited her boyfriend over to stay at our apartment for ten days (and nights) (of hot monkey sex) without informing me first. Appropriate?

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Augh! No, NOT appropriate. Kick him out! Kick her out too! (1 vote)
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One day or a weekend, maybe. Ten days? Too much. (14 votes)
 78%
Well, she should have told you first, but I don't see what the problem is. (3 votes)
 17%
There's nothing wrong with that! She can bring him over anytime! (0 votes)
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  • elapheg says:

    I would say that she could have him over for one or two nights without checking with you, but for ten days she definitely needs to make sure that it's ok with you. Not sure how the hot monkey sex is relevant though, surely it's her business what she gets up to (legally!) in her own room.

    Aug 19, 2008 04:18 AM
  • laner says:

    i do agree, that if she has her own room she can have her own guests, though ten days is rather excessive as he will be sharing the common areas with you and all... that of course also depends on where he usually lives. if he is from far away, she may not have much of a choice. if he is from down the street, its rather rude.

    Aug 19, 2008 09:41 AM
  • Yuri says:

    monkey-sex might be legal in her room :0) but as she is sharing an apartment with you, I think you can expect some respect and consideration from her. 10 days in a row is pretty tough. And she should definitely talk to you first - even if it is only a weekend, just so you know it's going to happen. And 10days only with proper consent. but that's my 5cent, and I'm weird...

    Oh, you might want to fight back:
    http://xkcd.com/316/

    Aug 20, 2008 04:18 AM
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